Thursday, September 27, 2007

Thumping Thursday

The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test
http://www.okcupid.com/tests/6711512663497470889/Quick-Painless-ENNEAGRAM

Wow...the results are not too shabby about describing me and I only had to answer two questions.

Your Score: 6 - the Questioner

you chose CY - your Enneagram type is SIX (aka "The Loyalist").
"I am affectionate and skeptical"

Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.

How to Get Along with Me
-Be direct and clear.
-Listen to me carefully.
-Don't judge me for my anxiety.
-Work things through with me.
-Reassure me that everything is OK between us.
-Laugh and make jokes with me.
-Gently push me toward new experiences.
-Try not to overreact to my overreacting.

What I Like About Being a SIX
-being committed and faithful to family and friends
-being responsible and hardworking
-being compassionate toward others
-having intellect and wit
-being a nonconformist
-confronting danger bravely
-being direct and assertive

What's Hard About Being a SIX
-the constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind
-procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself
-fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of
-exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger
-wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right
-being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations

SIXes as Children Often
-are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn
-are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger
-form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent
-look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel
-are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, and/or take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent

SIXes as Parents
-are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty
-are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
-worry more than most that their children will get hurt
-sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries

3 comments:

Mary T-Allen said...

I want to assure you that everything is OKAY between us and I would happily be on your us against them team. But I will need to be an US. I want to take this test, too, but Big Brother (i.e. City of Lufkin) says D-NIED! I'll have to wait until I get home. Boo.

Zay said...

Mary...that's all I wanted and needed...getting the thumbs up that we are a-okay really lowers my anxiety.

On my "us against them" team requires matching t's, I think. That would be so cute.

Or maybe a "don't judge me for my anxiety" tee just for me. :)

Marcy said...

I just took this! Quite accurate for a two question test! I'm an 8-the asserter.

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